5 Reasons Why You Should Not Date A Girl Who Dives

[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]She is the one with sun-kissed (or sunburnt) skin, possibly with visible tan lines. She most probably has a mop of flyaway hair that is sun-bleached. She embraces the casual and out-of-bed look and really brings it to the next level sometimes. You know it when you see it. You know that this one is quite different from the previous ones that you have known.[/vc_column_text][vc_column_text]Disclaimer: This post is written with the assumption of all things being equal; ceteris paribus. You know.
[/vc_column_text][vc_column_text]1.She is fiercely independent
She values freedom and independence greatly and they are definitely some of the critical influencing factors for life’s big decisions, from the choice of career, to personal relationships. As Harper Lee put it so aptly – “beholden to nothing and no one on this earth”. Do not be alarmed or taken aback when she takes a trip on her own without asking you along. She takes things at her own pace and seldom perturbed by the pace of the world. Determined to walk the path the way she wants it to, there is little you can do to change her mind on the decisions she chooses for herself.
[/vc_column_text][vc_column_text]2. She is in constant pursuit of clarity 
She is a paradox of self-opinionatedness yet possess liberal views and outlooks. Despite the constant daydreams, she has clarity on life in general; what’s happening around us, what’s important, what’s not and what are the things that she wants. Conversations with her can be the most stimulative if not the most boring if you cannot keep up, as her uninhibited nature and imaginativeness will have you thinking that you are probably dating 4 persons at the same time. Clarity makes for a good understanding of herself, others and the environment. She knows when to stick around and when to walk away. 
[/vc_column_text][vc_column_text]3.She hates repetition  
She cannot live with life repeating itself over and over again monotonously. She appreciates routine and rituals, and understands the importance of it but living her days with no new challenges and new goals to hit, those days will bore her soon enough. There are constantly new opportunities to be explored, new places to explore, new tasks to undertake, new people to meet. Life moves in the fast lane for her, most often than not, you might find yourself not on the priority list when she makes room for other things. 
[/vc_column_text][vc_column_text]4.She is not good for your self-esteem
She probably has a strong set of opinions, views or perspectives about almost everything in life, across all different sectors and arenas. Go ahead, ask her anything, from what Jennifer Lawrence wore during the Oscars, celeb gossip, and Duterte or Arab Spring. She will not hesitate to challenge your views and opinions at any given point in time or to point out what you can do better, at the same time remaining open to your criticism. Being agreeable and likeable are just not on the list of things that she wants to become. [/vc_column_text][vc_column_text]5.She is a daydreamer
She might have her head underwater constantly, wondering and dreaming about the next magical underwater encounter with the next majestic marine animal in the checklist. She spends more time thinking about all the marine animals than she does about you. Conversations and travel plans will revolve around the next scuba diving adventure she has in mind. She fantasizes about marine animals more than she ever does about you. Or anyone for that matter.
[/vc_column_text][vc_column_text]Oh, just when you think that she has “ghosted”, don’t worry, chances are, she is probably out there somewhere, and yes, you’ve guessed it right; probably scuba diving. Or, she’s just really had her head buried in doing the things that she loves and finds meaning in. She also loves to “unplug” when there is a need to. If she actually kind of likes you, you might receive some nice messages with nice photos. If not, just wait for the updates on Facebook news feed. So if you are insecure and needs constant reassurance about who that random half-naked guy beside her in the photo is, then she’s not the one for you. If you are too used to girls made of sugar, your taste buds might be in for a blast. [/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row]

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